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But that’s not an option for me (although some would probably disagree).
This is all tied to my racial identity, my tendency to be a homebody, and my lack of resources.
Before I get ignorant racist comments I want to say that I support white guys who want to date outside their race in the same way as black guys who want to date outside their race.
However, I am white and that’s why I write this article from my point of view.
I like their beautiful brown skin, their hearty smile and to be completely honest, I love how their skin smells like vanilla.
It only created a situation where I would waste time emailing someone back and forth (successfully) over a number of days, only to be stabbed in the chest when I would be forced to reveal my race, usually before a date or meeting. I didn’t want to deal with all the aggravation involved in the dating game.
And it goes back to why I don’t approach women and never have.
I don’t have an attraction to Black women (generally speaking) and they don’t have any attraction to me because I don’t fit their image of “Black Manhood”.
And White, Asian, and Hispanic women aren’t interested because I’m not White & I can’t compete with what a White man can provide for them (in terms of money, social status, a trophy, looks, as a family provider, as financial security, etc). When and if I try dating again in a few years (once my financial fortunes improve) my options are still going to be extremely limited. we are in the age of Obama and attitudes about race are supposedly changing… But I don’t really buy into that…and I don’t believe the rise of a political figure could really translate into an improvement in the realm of dating relationships…