Dating advice for women in college
In some cases the lure of porn and sexual sin will be even greater because you will have more responsibility as a married man.
Stress, being tired, and conflict are often triggers for porn use and marriage will have seasons of all of this.
Likewise, you may not be blown away by a woman’s external beauty the first time you meet her, but if she starts showing interest, thinks you’re funny, really respects you, thinks you are a strong man of God, and wants you to lead and love her, watch out because fireworks are about to fly.
Therefore you will need to be wise and know yourself.
What are you overly attracted to about women that in the long-run are not that important?
Are you over valuing her hair color and totally missing an amazing Christian woman who is beautiful but has a different hair color?
If you want a woman who reads her Bible daily and has a strong relationship with God, do you?
Be the Type of Man She Would Want I know Christian women can have high expectations too, but, and this is just my personal opinion, Christian guys are usually way worse. It’s another conversation to talk about what should and should not be important.
So my first piece of Christian dating advice for men is: Don’t be blinded by her beauty.
Don’t be led around by fantasy and seduction like a dumb ox foolishly walking to the slaughter house (Proverbs 7:1-27). Don’t even ask yourself if you are attracted to her if she does not pass these basic tests first. Before You Pursue a Life Partner, Stop Watching Porn I’m not saying every Christian guy is addicted to porn.
Not Paris Hilton.”Even if you’re not a romantic, this one can teach you a lot about yourself and your relationships with others.
Did you know that building emotional intelligence is a key to success? Watch the world change around you as you control it.